…ng that the man I loved had lied to me, yet I wasn’t angry or jealous. If anything, I was just sad. I had sort of resigned myself to the idea that I loved this man, and it seemed like hurting just came with the territory.When I Was His Mistress, He Had an Affair with His Coworker1.2K8Shannon AshleyKatrina PaulsonJul 18, 2020·1 min readUgh. The truth of this sentence sums up my 20’s.